Lensing...

Let's call this process "Lensing":

Myself for myself,
Myself for the other,
The other for myself,
The other for the other

System for the system,
System for the people,
People for the system,
People for the people

I kill myself,
I kill the other,
The other kills me,
The other kills the other.

See that? Synchronicity. Reverberation. I'm not creating it, it's out there itself. Not quite objective, but not relative either.